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 | My go-to meal as of lately - brown rice and lentil noodles with bok choy, shiitakes and onions. So my (27f) boyfriend (37m) has a motorcycle and one of my favorite things to do with him is ride on the back of his bike. We’re both busy with work so we typically only get to ride once a week on the weekend and I always look forward to it. One of our friends (40f) had brought up multiple times how much she loves riding on motorcycles and that she wanted my boyfriend to take her for a ride. I told my bf that since we only get to ride once a week I didn’t want to give that up so another girl can ride with him but I was going to be out of town in a few weeks so I said they could just ride together then. Well they went on the ride while I was gone and I didn’t initially care, but now she wants to go riding again and I kinda don’t want them to. Last time she posted pictures of them together and said all her friends were asking who the hot guy was and she said he was taken but it just made me feel a little uncomfy thinking about how all these people probably thought they were dating. And honestly if I wasn’t dating my bf I know she would be trying to (she thinks he’s really hot and she has actually told me that he is the perfect man lol) I know my boyfriend won’t take her for another ride if I tell him I don’t feel comfortable with it, but now I feel weird saying anything about it to her bc I already said it was okay. I just realized how much I don’t like the thought of another girls arms around my man. Am I just being silly by caring that other people might think that they’re dating or is it valid to not really want them to ride together again? How would I even go about bringing it up to her? submitted by /u/SensitiveEmergency59 to r/GirlDinnerDiaries [link] [comments] |
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